When will I be motivated?

I have a long ways to go...in being a successful blogger. It's a lot harder than it seems . For me anyway , when I read so many blogs out there I get discouraged because I find it very hard to keep readers/followers interested or entertained or whatever . I never took a creative writing course but  it's something I would like to do .  I don't know if creative writing was the purpose for starting my blog but I know that if I kept an online journal it would be boring . ha! I try, I really do. I have noticed my brain seems to function better at night when I'm not distracted from the noise of ringing phones, police cars and sirens and ambulances and the daily hustle and bustle which tends to tire me easily . I get zapped of energy or perhaps I'm just lazy . lol

How NOT to put automatic music players on blogs

Excuse me , it's not that I dislike YOUR music , it's that I prefer to have the option in listening to it AFTER I visit your site. Automatic music players drive me away from you , so, if you want me to visit your blog , as most of you are appreciative of this, I suggest you make it as convenient as possible , and put it in a visible place, preferably at the top of the page , so I don't have to search for it , to only turn it off ! KThanks

Yes , this is a pet peeve . It's not only me , and I would like you to learn how to NOT put automatic music players on blogs - read this Building a Better Blog - Brent Riggs....