How NOT to put automatic music players on blogs

Excuse me , it's not that I dislike YOUR music , it's that I prefer to have the option in listening to it AFTER I visit your site. Automatic music players drive me away from you , so, if you want me to visit your blog , as most of you are appreciative of this, I suggest you make it as convenient as possible , and put it in a visible place, preferably at the top of the page , so I don't have to search for it , to only turn it off ! KThanks

Yes , this is a pet peeve . It's not only me , and I would like you to learn how to NOT put automatic music players on blogs - read this Building a Better Blog - Brent Riggs....